Who the Fuck Are You, Really? A Realm of Chaos Identity Check No One Asked For…. Let’s get this out of the way. Most people don’t have an identity problem. They have a straight up honesty problem. Because if I asked you, right now, no prep time, no journaling, no aesthetic Pinterest board, Who the fuck are you? Most people freeze. They give me: their job their trauma their responsibilities who they’re “trying” to be who they used to be before life got really heavy, or they became an actual adult. But that’s not an identity. That’s a
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Why Playing Small is Deadly: Stop Shrinking, Start Owning It Let’s Get Real: Playing Small is as serious Rat Trap From the time we’re little girls, we’re told to: • Sit down. • Stay quiet. • Don’t take up too much space. • Act like a lady, and be nice. That conditioning doesn’t just disappear when we grow up—it shows up in the way we apologize too much, doubt our worth, and settle for less than we deserve. Playing small isn’t harmless. It’s deadly. As deadly as a rat trap, splattered guts oozing out and all the other insides. It kills opportunities.