Who the Fuck Are You, Really? A Realm of Chaos Identity Check No One Asked For…. Let’s get this out of the way. Most people don’t have an identity problem. They have a straight up honesty problem. Because if I asked you, right now, no prep time, no journaling, no aesthetic Pinterest board, Who the fuck are you? Most people freeze. They give me: their job their trauma their responsibilities who they’re “trying” to be who they used to be before life got really heavy, or they became an actual adult. But that’s not an identity. That’s a