Who the Fuck Are You, Really?   A Realm of Chaos Identity Check No One Asked For….   Let’s get this out of the way. Most people don’t have an identity problem. They have a straight up  honesty problem. Because if I asked you, right now, no prep time, no journaling, no aesthetic Pinterest board,  Who the fuck are you? Most people freeze. They give me: their job their trauma their responsibilities who they’re “trying” to be who they used to be before life got really heavy, or they became an actual adult.  But that’s not an identity. That’s a

I’m Allowed to Change — Choosing New Versions of Myself Without Apology   Women aren’t just expected to hold it all together, we’re expected to stay the same while doing it. Same smile. Same role. Same personality. Same dreams. Same version of a woman everyone recognizes and feels comfortable with. But let me tell you something loud, clear, and without apology: I am not required to stay familiar to anyone. I’m allowed to change. And I’m not sorry for it. Because every season of my life reshaped me, and pretending it didn’t would be the real big damn lie.  

Quiet Money, Loud Future — Rebuilding My Kingdom One Dollar at a Time by One Bad Maa There’s this moment nobody warns you about , the moment you wake up, look around at your life, your bank account, your habits, your mess, your victories, your half-finished dreams, and realize: “Damn… it’s time to rebuild again.” Not for the first time. Not for the second time. For the twentieth. Rebuilding isn’t punishment. It’s a pattern,  especially if you’re the type who refuses to stay small. I’ve burned my life down more than once. Walked away from people, places, jobs, mindsets, whole